I WONDER WHY CINDERELLA HAS MORE DRAW THAN GILLIAN `INFJ´ METCALFE? Post No.58 (A 10 minute read)
INTRODUCING THE PAGES OF MY BLOG POST.
Understanding as I do, typical INFJ type that I am, that it is very difficult to keep up with my trains of thought, I have laid out this PAGE ONE of PAGES, which lists each post written in the month of November 2022, when I began writing down my trains of thought! That is to say, the BEGINNING!!
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| THE BOOK UNDER THE SPOTLIGHT! |
The November posts are listed in chronological order and I give a brief summary of the content of each of the posts, including the quotes from my book and the photos attached to each post. I also explain for the benefit of the, neither INTUITIVE or OBSERVANT types (what that makes them then, I am not quite sure!), how to find each post on my blog!
At the same time, I am noting the number of views that each post has had and rounding up my month of November and the 16 posts written, with a summary of my thoughts and FEELINGS about my first month of blogging.
My purpose was to bring awareness to my first book titled `ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN´, recently published and hopefully get some communication going with some like-minded people about the issues that are most important! I am still waiting on that score!!
If you want a closer look, these are the links to my first book on Amazon: ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN e-book and ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN Paperback
As for my own day to day under my new circumstances, well, I have come through the first two weeks of dual-confinement pretty well I think. Fiona has not finished that fourth quarter of the kitchen as yet but hey, it is MY castle too and I shall do as I see fit and when I FEEL like it too! True, we have had some chilly, windy, grey days and a few spots of rain. Those days never seem like cleaning days, they are writing days. Cinderella cannot just turn on the cleaning trip anytime, oh, no!
There has been far more music than writing though but hey, today is today and will carrying on being this day, until I am able to make some conclusive decisions which move me in a forwards motion in a more meaningful way. This is adjusting time though, I knew it would be this way. I do know my partner so inside and out. As a sometime narcissist (hissing, spitting, venomous toad) and a sometime Prince Charming, he is rather transparent!
I can get on to any of his wavelengths (not many of them I will do willingly), but he can get on none of mine, therein the parallel existence that is ours! Hence I sit here talking to invisible ears whilst he sits nearby, I would go mad if I could not communicate my thoughts and FEELINGS ever, that is what happens sadly, to INFJ types like me.
Hence the high INTROVERTED tendency, no one will let you come out and play! You have to learn how to amuse yourself, how to stimulate your own mind and senses! Having plenty of INTUITION of course, with a tranquil status quo, there are no limits for this female INFJ who does not have taboos! Taboos are barriers of ignorance built to protect all from the real truths of ALL that is necessary and good to know!
I have the great joy of knowing that a copy of my first book `ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN´, has been delivered two days before the scheduled date of delivery, to my very first contact and commentator, Ms. C. An enormous thank you to you Ms. C, for wanting to listen to me and consider me. You will be able to do so in your own sweet time and in your own comfort. I FEEL sure you will be seeing me in a different light by the time you come back from your travels!!!
I am so excited, I really am, a real life person has my book in their possession and wants to read it! Wow! I have achieved something and bizarrely enough, it was my daytime mirage, aka my partner, who was the bridge that broached our initial contact. Life is so strange and so unusual, if you allow it to be. Just as I say in the introduction to my first book, we are often afraid to put ourselves forward as INFJs.
We are so used to rejection, that we dread each new encounter for that very reason. Either we are instantly rejected by the other or it is we who wish to reject that other. It is so very rare that I can FEEL a reciprocal drawing towards another person and that saddens me so much. There is a world full of very shallow, narrow-minded and narrow-sighted, highly judgemental people out there.
Actually finding one who may wish to share and reciprocate in a non-judgemental way, be prepared to move their parameters some and not be all knowing when they are not! Yes, it is true that as an INFJ type, I am looking for sincerity and no taboos, of course! If we cannot speak the truth as we perceive it, then what can we talk on that will not be a waste of our time!
A warm welcome to readers from Greece, North Macedonia, Timor-Leste, the Bahamas, Puerto Rico, Kenya, Switzerland, Finland, Bosnia and Herzegovina and Mauritius. Wow! How about you make contact with me? I would so love to know more about you ALL, I really would. Who are ALL these people looking my way? I will never know if you do not make yourself known to me, will I?
I hope that more of you will have a look back through the posts from the beginning and come on board with my trains of thought and get up to date with me! You could become a FOLLOWER too, if you wished, it is your choice, there is a follow tab in the right-hand panel below the contact box!
I am now preparing the next PAGE which will be PAGE TWO of THE `ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN´ posts, those written in December 2022.
Thank you for reading as always, it is lovely to know that so many people are looking my way but you are all rather quiet! Make some noise, let me know you are there! I will always welcome your thoughts and comments.
Until the next post, happy learning!
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